Men grieve too when their baby(ies) die. They just do it differently from women. Here are a few books I found specially for men. I am so sorry for your loss.
Men & Grief: A Guide for Men Surviving the Death of a Love One, by Carol Staudacher, New Harbinger Publications
When Men Grieve: Why Men Grive Differently & How You Can Help, by Elizabeth Levang, Fairview Press
Getting Back to Life When Grief Won’t Heal, by Phyllis Kosminsky, McGraw Hill